Sunday, September 20, 2015

Don't Refer to Your Husband as One of Your Children!

People say: Your husband will always be your biggest and oldest child that requires the most adult supervision"
I say:
Not so! Call a man a child, he will act like one. When women refer to their husbands as children, it diminishes the role of a husband. It also invariably has a psychological effect on the man in that he fails to behave in the way a husband should. He abdicates his role and responsibility as a grown man with a wife and counts on you for the things he got from his mother, and that is why he needs your supervision.
If you call your husband a child, you miss the very essence of who a husband is supposed to be in your life. If your husband is your child, it affects the way you talk to him, think of him, and deal with him. If your husband is your child, who then is your husband? Who then is your friend, provider, protector, cheerleader, confidant, and lover? All of which your husband should be.
The roles are different, and every woman deserves a real man... providing, protecting, praying, and applauding. Our children are to be raised, corrected, and molded. 
Ladies! stop it! Even if he starts off acting like a child, you must gently help him recognize that that is not his role in your life. 
Let's not teach this error to our daughters. They will not know how to differentiate between grown boys and real men.
Calling your husband a child emasculates him and short changes you.
It's a lose-lose situation.
Das all.

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